365 days in a year... but that one day of the year is different in some way... and nobody knows the reason...
Everyone wishes the person who came into this world that day or rather date but forget to wish the person who brought them into this world...
"Happy Birthday" says everyone... wishes and gifts pour in and blessings from people older than us how ever old we mite be...
I remember only my aunt makes it a point to wish my mom on my birthday because she who is a mother of three knows the pain her sister went thru and the joy she felt at that very moment of my birth and my mother's rebirth.
The moment we are born is priceless joy but why do we have to celebrate the day rather date every year? What is that we actually think while celebrating the "SPECIAL" day?
Do we remember to thank our mother for bringing us to this world or ask her why the hell did she have to go thru so much pain to bring me into this bad world...
We calculate our age and know how old we have grown, but do we ask ourselves how wise we have grown?
Do we look back and see how we have lived all these years and plan ahead or just leave it to time to take us with it like the wind?
Some of us do a noble deed like visiting an orphanage or old age home or donate food or what ever we can afford. We feel happy about doing so on a special day like birthdays and cherish the memory. Y don't we think we can do it on any day also and make that day special for us and the others too?
All these apart, we still feel special about this day, "Birthday". I might express my joy openly or feel the joy within and walk modestly.
The day is celebrated by cutting cakes, treating frends and family, receiving wishes thru phone calls and emails and networking sites(the recent addition which also helps ur frends to remember ur bday), some pictures taken to remember the day like the one wit cake all over ur face & another one expression on ur face when there was a surprise waiting for u at sharp 12, in the middle of the night...
By all this do I mean to say what we should be doing and what we should not be doing? The answer is NO.
U have the right to celebrate the way U want it...
The way most of us celebrate is one of the best ways coz that way we are living the moment. And living this very moment is the best way to live life...
Happy b'day Kausi... Hav a great day...
2 comments:
A very good thought.. Its again a milestone .. go ahead.. My Happy Birthday Wishes to you (R) Mom.Kalama-->The artistic mom!!! for bringing you to this word ...
A true inspiration of basic psychology, however, failed to mention the exceptions. Yes, one do owe their Mother, more than a wish on their Birthday. Answer me,--> What in your perception (may be vide., MSc psychology), when one is required to either chose, the divine and artistic mother on the one hand or the dignity to the trust for justice in you on the other?
Either by way of your career or by way of your rich experience, let you shoot it on me, either a phenomenal basis or as a whole. In all and afortiori, an answer is appreciated.
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